Last year, I started my yearly 3-month mini retirement. In 2022, I spent 3 months living in Barcelona, Spain and traveling around Europe. In 2023, I wanted to focus on my relationships. In previous posts, I talked about retiring early so I can spend more time with family and friends. I wanted to test that out and see if it’s all that it is cracked up to be. Sometimes relatives are only tolerable in moderation.
I spent the first half of my mini retirement mostly with family and catching up with friends. Both of my sisters have kids now, so I acted as an aux-pair for a few weeks. I absolutely love my niece and nephews. They bring me so much joy. But they did take up all of my free time and energy so I knew I couldn’t be a full-time baby sitter forever.
I also helped take care of my 86-year-old grandmother that is dependent on my parents. The first week I had a lot of patience. By the end of the month, I was sort of over it. I can see how caregiver strain is a thing. And it felt like I was back at work except doing the role of all of my supportive staff as well. I am glad I was able to provide my parents with some time off so they could go on a quick getaway.
Then, I was focused on my relationship with my boyfriend. We spent one month “living together” in Europe to see what that would be like. We spent most of the time in Spain and a little bit in Belgium. We definitely learned a lot about each other, and had our ups and downs. I am glad I gave us the time to invest in our relationship so that we can continue to grow together.
The last part of my mini retirement was traveling around Europe with one of my best friends and then later with my mom. My friend met up with me in Belgium, and then we traveled together to Luxembourg and London. Then my mom met up with me in London and then we traveled together to Scotland.
Honestly, the 3 months went by really fast. I am surprised I am more of a “worker bee” than I originally thought. I feel guilty when I am not working and seeing patients. It has motivated me to think of side projects I want to work on when I decide to pull the plug on working full time as a nurse practitioner.
I also realized that I enjoy one aspect of locum tenens not often talked about – which is Solitude. Solitude is the positive aspect of being alone. Working as a traveling nurse practitioner, I get my own place, that I do not have to share with anyone. I am away from most of my close friends and family, which gives me the opportunity to work on myself, and avoid distractions. I can do whatever I want, when I want. There is definitely something freeing in solitude.